If you are a girl who is 17 - 27 please answer ? older guy ?

17 is not old enough to know better. You are taking advantage of her youth. The family should not legally be able to har you but has every moral right to. As for the finger waivers on the internet, they are right you are wrong - I am not a bitter older or alone women, but I still have a problem with it. You are a dirty man who can't get anyone your own age, at your own maturity level, and would rather get your licks from a stupid kid who doesn't know any better and thinks its "cool" to do something so ridiculous.