SHE KNOWS! How should she respond to your affair?

None of those work for me. I would get upset, then angry, then upset again, then tell him this is the only thing I can't tolerate and that I am leaving. Then I will leave, live my life, try to move on and be 100% ready before I jump into the dating world. And also, it wouldn't be my fault, because there is nothing that justifies cheating.